The flow of my liFe...

facebook

2007-10-09T06:38:00.000-07:00

i think i'm spending so much time feeding,petting and racing my pet that my real pet dog is getting jealous!

holidays

2007-10-05T06:39:00.000-07:00

i'm satisfied..........with kiwi n mango gelato after dinner!

i'm so spoiled for choices for dec, should i :
1) Try something more adventurous by going backpacking/travel to somewhere which no one i know have travelled before eg.vietnam (as recommended by jo)
2)Save my money for aust trip next yr so tat i can travel more places bsides melbourne
3)Bangkok n phuket.....need i say more?
4) All of the above

I wish i was born with a golden spoon,with the car loan,tax,n other responsibilities i have, i can only choose one....howlAr?? =)

where oh where is my money tree when i need one!

btw, i need travelling "kaki-s" for the above mentioned destinations....anyone interested? =)

Guilty

2007-09-03T06:32:00.000-07:00

as stated by my title...i'm guilty for negleting my blog...can someone help me to revamp my blog?in return i promise to blog more often,hehe....

Learning

2007-05-21T06:55:00.000-07:00

I can hear them whispering softly in that sad yet solemn tone.
It breaks my heart to c them worried.
If only there is something i could do to ease this.
Its not that i want to, but i need to grow up.

Don't be afraid,just believe
-Mark 5:36

tagged

2007-05-16T08:19:00.000-07:00

Sigh, i just wrote a long entry n it got lost somehow on the verge of it getting published. Shall retype it again when i'm free.

For the past three weeks has been the busiest among all months. Been working everyday for three weeks without break, that would be around 10 hrs or more everyday including weekends!
It's really stressful n can really burn out the strength n joy within a person. Therefore, when i found out that my half day leave was approved today, without hesitation, i decided to catch up with my long lost buddy which i miss the most - my bed. lol.

Once again choices r to be made,with difficult decisions in hand, worries n uncertainties..there is so much more which i can learn of... i'm learnin to submit all this to Him,father lord.To the path he wants me to be in.

Special shout out to xian darlin! that babe called me on two separate days, but i did not even managed to speak to her for more than 2 mins on either occasion. But her cheerful voice did lift up my spirits for the rest of the day! =) will put on m to-do list to call u within these two weeks,k?

In reponse to pohz post to tagged me, here r 10 things u don know about me :

1. I love driving around exploring new roads n places. But of course it would be a plus point with companions! *hint*

2. I love exercising eg. jogging, rock climbing, dancing. But am weak n recover really slow due to lack of time to built up my stamina in it. Really,its not an excuse.lol.

3. I love travelling with friends. Even the shortest trip with friends to somewhere nearby such as genting will get me all exited n jumpy! =)

4. I love pets eg. dogs, rabbits, hamsters...

5. I still watch cartoons occasionally. Not the anime kind but channel 61 n 62 on astro.yep.

6. I love star gazing.

7. I am usually quiet n don speak much around ppl i do not know. But once u get to know me (vice versa), u'll get to c the other side of me.

8. I dislike hot tempered people who always curse. But i guess same goes to many others.

9. I like meeting ppl from various background. Many things in life r learnt through other ppl's words(experiences).

10. I hate all living things which r cold-blooded, has more than four legs and especially those which can fly. Regardless big or small. All except for butterflies.

I can actually go on n on with this.but that will spoil the fun of getting to know me,won't it? have a fruitful week ahead!

Men r from mars, women r from venus

2007-05-02T06:07:00.000-07:00

Saw this scenario happened between a couple a few days ago when i was out, thought that it is quite hilarious n decided to share!

In the ladies handbag section of a departmental store:

Lady : What do u think of the size n colour of this clutch? nice? (holding it on her hand)
Guy : Huh? But the car section is one floor down,there is no clutch here.....(empty,blur look)
Lady : ........

Celebrations!

2007-04-24T05:32:00.000-07:00

it's been a wonderful weekend, guess it's only fair that i share wih the rest of u...
to those who called, msg, or met me in person to wish me happy bday...thanx a bunch!
all of u r the ones which puts that smile on my face n make my day..hugs*
as a really wise, intelligent n hot babe once told me, a picture speaks a thousand words....here's
how the day was spent...

Sunday

2007-04-15T05:14:00.000-07:00

Ever since i started work,(nearly 10 mths ago), i never had time for myself. Being in solitude, without having to rush from one place to another or being under constant stress......has never felt so good. In other words...i'm excited cause i was able to "fat mou" at home for the day.

What i managed to accomplish:

1) Tidy my room. Sometimes simple chores like this really brings back memories to me. Picking up the bits n pieces left here n there,placing them back where they should be, just ain't easy at times,right?

2)Watch TV. Pathetic as it may sounds, yes, i haven watch tv for ......mayb a couple of months?

3)Have an afternoon nap. Ooh,i love power naps! once awake, u'll feel so energised n refreshed!

4)Read.I love reading.enough said.

Unproductive as it may sounds,simple things like this easily satisfies me. But than again, i guess i won't be feeling satisfied as this if i do this every weekend.

Sometimes i just wish everyone has a mood ring so i'd know what to say n expect at that very moment.

Happy Easter~!

2007-04-11T05:49:00.000-07:00

Easter on Sunday was spent at my "third" home....church! The easter play was so superb,n here i thought that last yr's play was good enough, little did i know this yr was even better! all the hard work of the crew has truly paid off! =) after that had lunch and head off to witness the baptism of a few friends.As this is the first time i witness how a person gets baptise, it really was an eye opener for me. It was truly a blessed afternoon indeed. Congrats to all who got baptise on that day!

The "mansion" where the baptism took place,with Adeline hosting,followed by the group of happy people getting baptise! =)

On a totally unrelated note,Am so happy to receive a call from mojojo a few days ago! she's like an energy/spirit booster to me, always recharge me with strength when i'm down! thanx babe for the call, eventhough i'm sure i wasn in the best mood(or person) to speak to the other day, but just to let u know that conversations with u never fails to lift my spirits up! heart u lots lots!muax!

Gatherings

2007-04-03T06:40:00.000-07:00

Another gathering/bday party i attented recently,meeting ppl i haven't met in like...10 yrs?hahaha...it was funny talking about how naive n naughty we were in primary school!we were reminising how we use to irritate the teachers by passing letters to each other while they r teaching,imitating certain teacher's etc...this gathering was filled with even more exciting news,some ppl i know r actually expecting kids or already have kids!it was kinda weird,having small kids calling me 'aunty'...nearly gave them the killer stare,but diverted it to their parents who asked them to call me that instead!ohno...not anticipating 2weeks time to turn 22....

some random pics i find interesting...noted the last pic was intentionally rotated,hehe

the long lost 10 yrs primary school ppl...

Random

2007-03-31T07:20:00.000-07:00

Finally, that chapter of my life is closed.
Although it ended with grudges towards me,yet...
i feel relieved that it ended.

Happy birthday's

2007-03-27T05:27:00.000-07:00

Been meeting up with lots of ppl recently! so fun! it's so nice to see growth in each other (not referring to body habitus). my ex-uni/room mates came down all the way from penang, had a small gathering with the rest of the uni mates who were in kl! it's been a yr since all of us have met up, after a yr of not meeting up, most of our topics were related to non other than work! But it was also filled with surprises to know that one of the couples among my classmates has gotten engaged,another getting married end of this yr, while the other's who r involve in a ldr are still holding on strong! End of this yr will be so filled of weddings indeed as so many ppl i know r tying the knot!

Met up with some secondary friends too at Wei Sheong n Roshida's birthday party. Some of them,i haven met since high school (which is quite some time ago)...some pics from there as below:

From left to right: king han,bday girl-roshida,yours truly, kenneth,sharon,julia,zhuin yein n the bday boy(weisheong after gotten thrown into the pool)

The party was filled with so much laughter! To Wei Sheong or Roshida if u're reading this,thanks for inviting! May the bday celebration mark the yr ahead filled with many more joyful n rewarding occasions =)

Bumped into some friend's when attending a convo in sunway hotel. Most of the people i know now r either working or in the midst of getting their degree,eye candy below....

Shall pen-off here, till the next post! have a great week ahead! *bigwidesmile*

Changes

2007-03-20T05:50:00.000-07:00

For everything, there is a season and a time, a change for everything as nothing remains and lasts for eternity. And that verse goes.

I'm no big fan of changes.Especially life turning ones.Beginning of last year till now, i've been on a non-stopping roller coaster ride, sometimes i shout for joy,sometimes i feel so sick i wanna puke...would so prefer to sit on a ferris wheel instead,slow but steady yet enjoying the scenary from every angle! this whole month has been such a busy month,activities packed up every single day...I'm sleep deprived,family deprived,friends deprived,social life deprived,shopping deprived!(last but not the least) but my true challenge will start in 2 weeks time,will i be strong enough to handle it n proof myself,my capabilities...or will i succumb n fall on just the very first time..

But one thing i know for sure,as much the temptation is in there.....I am not anticipating this change.

On another note,last weekend was great...had a great meal at my fav cosy japanese restaurant!! It's really a great place to go if u want to have a nice quiet dinner with zen like ambience and good food! having probs with my hp,unable to upload the pics at the moment,but will post them once its uploaded!=)

Weekend

2007-03-09T04:37:00.001-08:00

It's the weekend, but y am i not happy, mayb it's because :
1. I STILL need to work on sat, n attend a work related conference straight after work (without any break or lunch provided) .
2. This work-related conference lasts till approximately 11pm on a saturday night.
3. It's a two-day conference.
4. I need to wake up at 6.30am in the morning to attend this conference on sunday till late at night. Who wakes up at 6.30am to attent to work on a sunday?!

There goes my weekend.hmph.

Can't wait till next weekend.

Happyness

2007-03-05T06:14:00.000-08:00

Received a short n sweet msg which goes:Hey wei chee,how r u?although we may b miles apart but just want u to know that i miss u! =)

n that made my day. I love my friends.

Lacking of a few more ppl to complete this picture,joanne,huixian n foon ling.

Nostalgical cny

2007-02-27T06:56:00.001-08:00

Happy Chinese New Year to all! May this year be a prosperous n promising year ahead for all!how have ur holidays been?

This hols has taken me a stroll down memory lane,flashback of my childhood,primary school days all till today...moments made n memories which remains strongly imprinted into my mind,moulding me to the person,the character i am today.I truly enjoyed my studying life till college.Life back than was simple,where days will go by filled with laughters eventhough there were assignments n exams,and the occational pebbles in the path of life,but it was good.Ok,enough of the nostalgic moments,sorry to bore everyone with this post.

I was back in sabah,my hometown(yes,i'm half sabahan) for the cny's,this yr was a change from the previous yrs of going abroad for hols during cny,it feels great to finally be back there!I was so exicited from the moment i touch down from the 2 1/2 hrs plane ride till i reach my relatives house,the roads,the shops,the landmarks,instantly sents a sense of familiarity.The whole trip was filled with visiting n food.I just love the food there,not only the seafood but ngiu chap(or commonly known in peninsular msia as beef noodle).Honestly,i recon the beef noodles in kl r horrible,or mayb it's because i don't know where to search for it...anyway,below is the fav pic of the fav place of mine in sabah,which never fails to make me at peace.....

Sabah,the land below the wind.....

Shall pen off now,few more days till cny is over,happy cny n all the best in getting more ang pow's! ps: to those of u who r around,do drop by my house to bai nian when free! =)

2007

2007-01-22T07:07:00.000-08:00

hiye ppl,first n foremost,happy 2007!due to certain reasons,i had to remove the previous post...anyway really glad to be back! my comp crashed on me recently,but now its been revived!yay!in this brand new year,i shall try my best to dedicate more time for this blog n updating it more frequently!but as for now,will need to sign off...will be back soon! =)

Food for thought

2006-08-20T09:48:00.000-07:00

An interesting article which i came across online. =)

Did I Marry The Right Person?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered, "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated his call, wanted his touch and liked his idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there, doing nothing. Then something came along and happened to you.

Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens) and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages break down. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extra-marital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY, you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

The Key To Succeeding In Marriage Is Not Finding The Right Person; It's Learning To Love The Person You Found .

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the _expression "the labour of love" ... because it takes time, effort and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "DECISION"... Not just a feeling.

My first post

2006-07-21T22:40:00.000-07:00

Officially,this is my post on my blog,i too have joined the "dark" side...yes,to certain people who r reading this now,u may laugh or tease me as much as u want for all the times which i declare out loudly detesting to blog! =p

I'm still new here,therefore will slowly update my blog once i have the time,hehe,but for now,bear with this ya! =)